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Birthday wish for someone special!

So, yesterday was my dear blog's birthday and today my dear mom's!

So, before I am off to bed, I would like to write a wish for my mom on her birthday.

My amma (Picture courtesy: 84 mm studio)
A mother is always special for every child. And every child feels their mother is the most beautiful and wonderful person they have ever met. So is it for me. I just love my mom (and dad of course!). Having grown up in India, I have lived with my parents till my marriage and moved out to the US with my hubby. As my achan was always working and busy, my amma was the person who was around for most of our (my brother and I) everyday needs. Now, even after over 3 1/2 years of marriage,  and calling K-town my home, I miss the "home" where my parents live.  Yes, thanks to technology, I do talk to them everyday but it is still not the same given the different time zones and work hours. However, one beautiful thing is that with time and now the distance, I connect to my amma more than ever.

What do I miss other than that ? Well, of course, the food. The delicious food (made with love :)) which was always  there when I was back from school or from college or from work. Specially packed lunch and the best tea ever ( I love my mom's masala chai).

As much as I love my hubby and love my life here with him (I am a super romantic person;)), I miss my parents and my brother. Probably it is because you can be the same dearest daughter irrespective of whatever you do :)  whether you yell at them or are upset with them or just hug them!  Just like every daughter-mommy fight, we have had our share of arguments and fights (we still do :P) but they are momentary and do not last for a long time. I think I have that similar relationship with A, my hubby - does not matter whether I fight with him or am angry or am happy (**knock on wood). It all dissolves and it is all fine and important for that relationship.

My mom is my best friend and I am really glad to be her daughter. I have always been in awe of her wonderful creativity. She is extremely creative and capable. She is dextrous and extremely talented in organizing things. She is a beautiful mom, great mother-in-law (I am sure my sis-in-law and my hubby will agree), a lovely wife and I am sure a good sister and sister-in-law.

So here is a birthday wish for my mom. Happy Happy birthday to the lady, without whom I will not be the person I am today! By the way, I will write something better soon by Mother's day weekend.

Good night !
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