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A lil bit of 'I, me, myself' and some lessons I have learnt....



Life has been throwing lot of challenges and also happy somethings at me ever since I came to exist. I guess that is the way the universe connects to a person and sees how good he/she is in getting to reach or achieve their goals. Having born in to a simple and traditional family taught me true values that I still cherish and believe. With dad's transferrable service, we had to shift many schools. I have been to 8 different schools :). Yeah, this was and is one of the ways by which life taught me many lessons. I have had the chance to meet many people and every person - good or bad has helped me shape to be the person I am today.

Why am I prattling all these here?? Well, lessons in life. So here I am going to share some lessons that I learnt through 'my eyes'.

Please note that the lessons and opinions given below are just my thoughts.... its viewing life my way!



                                                                                 Picture courtesy @ Google images 

Never be Unfair. 

Well,again this may be a very cliched and old lessons. But this is the first one that comes to my mind as I guess, this is what I learnt from all the hops and jumps I have done. Life is always fun and amusing turn of events, unless it happens to us. People tend to just have a perception and judge every other person based on some very trivial and simple things like, money,status, beauty (skin deep) etc. Having jumped to different schools, my experience has taught me that most students and teachers will give you 'that' treatment and show that attitude. But of course, these change once they understand that 'you' will be a person of 'use' for them. For teachers, it takes some time to get off their favorite student syndrome. Again, I am not blaming the entire clan of teachers and students but most of them have remained so.

There have been instances that as a child, I have felt left out and by the time, I have made some impression amongst the crowd that yeah, this girl is something! I am off... tata bye-bye. Lolz.
But then the maturity level I have today is way ahead from what I was. As a kid, I guess, I was really shaken at times by the blatant unfairness meted out to people( includes me at times). I learnt that I should not be so from these incidents. Of course, there have been many good souls whom i befriended in this journey and have remained and still remain friends for life.

So there ends the first lesson.

Hmm... the journey continues and so does the lessons.... Well, sorry for the very drawling and boring prose. Penning this down even as I am ready to hit the sack!

Take care...

Best,
Meenu
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