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Marriage

One of my very good friend wanted me to post a blog on the topic of marriage .
Hmm I do not know if I can do write about it the way my friend wanted or not!
Marriage. It’s a bonding; it’s a connection, a name that gives birth to many a number of relations in this world!
Marriage is a bond between the two opposite genders and this bond that is named in front of the society and is secured.
Two people married are more secured than the ones who are not. This is a sacred institution for all. There are many religions and caste and all ( whatever ) everyone values the relationship called as marriage , Who does not celebrate one's marriage day and even In the years after the bond this is remembered as similar to that of a birthday , so it means it is a day of new birth a new lease of life for both I would mean be it the girl or a boy , In Indian culture we have a method that irrespective of any caste or religion the girl goes to the new family some even take the girl with a new name !
It is a blessing that is celebrated with pomp and show depending on ones financial stability .
Even marriages that are simple are done with some garlands and sweets and of course the new dress that marks the day of marriage. Life is about living without any expectations, it is about humility , it is about the sharing and caring that one shows and also the life is all about the giving and taking .When one gets married it is the promise that they take on that day based on their cultural inclination in front of some supreme power and take an oath that each one of them will be with the other or it would be better to say for the other always .
It is the life of understanding for we are to be with some body else who is just a new person
introduced to our life . We have many misgivings as usual and many joyous occasions and also a great life that teaches us what is sharing and loving .Many think that it is just a means to keep the family tree alive and growing but then it is more important that it is the force that makes people or man a more lovable creature !The promise called marriage taken in front of the holy pyre as in the Indian culture or the promise taken in front of the pastor .
Whatever it is two people when decide to be one whole through their life and they be one its more powerful is nt ?
i have still more to talk on this it will continue later in the second article that will follow this
.hope all liked it or rather agree with this !
sayonara !




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